반찬 예절
Banchan etiquette
Refills are normal; hovering your chopsticks over every dish is not.
Shared, not plated
Banchan sits in the middle. Take a little, refill is free in most Korean restaurants — say 반찬 추가요. Do not waste a full plate you will not eat. Do not mix everyone’s soup spoons. Kids learn to eat rice and soup from their own bowl while sides stay communal.