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잘 지냈어요?

How to say “how are you” in Korean A1

Koreans rarely say “how are you” — learn what they say instead: 잘 지냈어요?, 밥 먹었어요?, 별일 없어요?

Every form, from formal to casual

There is no everyday “How are you?” exchanged with strangers; 안녕하세요 already asks it. Between people who know each other, these are the real ones.

KoreanRomanizationLevelUse
잘 지내셨어요? jal jinaesyeosseoyo?HonorificElders / seniors you haven’t seen in a while
잘 지냈어요? jal jinaesseoyo?PoliteAcquaintances
잘 지내? jal jinae?CasualFriends
밥 먹었어요? bap meogeosseoyo?PoliteLiteral “did you eat?” = warm hello
별일 없어요? byeoril eopseoyo?PoliteAnything new?
요즘 어때요? yojeum eottaeyo?PoliteHow are things lately?

Which one do I actually use?

Answers: 네, 잘 지냈어요 (“yes, I’ve been well”), 그냥 그래요 (“so-so”), 바빠요 (“busy”). To 밥 먹었어요? answer honestly about food — 네, 먹었어요 — it is a greeting, but the reply is still literal. Do not translate “how are you” as 어떻게 지내세요? to a shop clerk; it sounds like an interview question.

Pronunciation notes

  • 잘 지냈어요

    지냈어요 → [지내써요]: ㅆ batchim moves onto 어.

  • 밥 먹었어요

    밥 먹 → [밤먹]: ㅂ before ㅁ nasalizes to ㅁ.

Vocabulary set

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Quick drill

Common mistakes

  • ✗ 어떻게 지내세요? as a daily hello to strangers✓ 안녕하세요Koreans do not ask strangers how they are; 안녕하세요 covers it.
  • ✗ Answering 밥 먹었어요? with “I’m fine”✓ 네, 먹었어요It is a greeting, but the reply stays about food.

Example sentences

오랜만이에요! 잘 지냈어요?
oraenmanieyo! jal jinaesseoyo?
Long time no see! How have you been?
그냥 그래요. 요즘 좀 바빠요.
geunyang geuraeyo. yojeum jom bappayo.
So-so. A bit busy lately.

FAQ

How do you say “how are you” in Korean?

Between acquaintances: 잘 지냈어요? (“have you been well?”). Casual: 잘 지내? Koreans also use 밥 먹었어요? (“have you eaten?”) as a warm hello.

How do you answer 잘 지냈어요?

네, 잘 지냈어요 (“yes, well”), 그냥 그래요 (“so-so”), or 바빴어요 (“I was busy”).

Why do Koreans ask if I have eaten?

밥 먹었어요? is a traditional way of showing care. Answer literally: 네, 먹었어요 or 아직 안 먹었어요.

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